Tuesday, July 1, 2014

perspective shift

We moved! The last week in May we closed on a house in Boise. The home buying process really started for us in January. When we came back from Seattle we were living at a home that Matt's mom owns. It was a great fit temporarily but we wanted something more permanent for the boys, especially because our oldest is starting high school next year. (!!!)

After almost 6 months of house hunting, I thought we should just throw in the towel. We had put in offers and had the owner decide to rent it out instead or raise the price $20,000. Seriously, so many crazy stories to tell. Finally we found a good fit and fought through the closing process that was again, the hardest we have experienced in 5 times buying a home. We are getting moved in to the new place and I will share it on the blog, but I wanted to share the space we created in our "temporary" home first. 
I was having such a pity party. When I would fall in love with a house and it fell through, I would freak out. It felt like, even though it was only a few months, we would never find and close on something that could be home for the 6 of us for the next season. 

Then Matt's mom asked me to take photos of the house we had been staying in, so that after we moved out she could list them for future renters. Total perspective shift. I cleaned everything and staged it like a house showing and snapped away. I was feeling so good about what we had done since August to make the place feel like "us." Love the one you're with. Or something like that.
 Our bedroom.
 Half bath.
 One of the boys bedrooms. (random side note; I regret not setting up the boys beds straight away. It felt very sloppy for all those months. Matt and I set their beds up right away in the new house. Lesson learned.)
 Front room as you enter the front door.
 Front room looking at the front door.
 Kitchen.
 Bathroom. Matt hung old fence pickets as towel hooks and shelves in here and I cannot wait to do it again in another space. I don't care how modern the trends go, shabby chic has my heart.
The back patio with some plant I don't know going nuts. There is also a wisteria that is monstrous out there. A decade ago there was a sewer leak so all the plants are real happy out there ;)

It was so interesting to me that such a simple practice could give me a new outlook. I have already been doing that at the new house. When I get stuck with something about a different set up, I will clean house and start hanging pictures for the now. The perfectionist has got to go, after all, we will probably be moving again soon. Ha! (laughing out loud, crying inside)

6 comments:

  1. Moving is the pits. Especially when you're a nester...or an introvert who loves home. Great pictures. Can't wait to see the new place!

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    1. Thanks. That house was so known as being Ellen's so it was challenging for me. Now the new place needs the Archie touch ;)

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  2. Ooh! How exciting! Congratulations! Of course I can't WAIT to see what you do with your more "permanent" place as I assume you didn't have free range to change ANYTHING you wanted at the old one? Oh girl, the things you will come up with. I'll be checking back regularly. (Oh, and aren't you due for a marriage series post? ;)

    I think part of the perspective is looking back at something that's complete instead of all that's left to do still in front of you at the new place. How fun (and exhausting) to turn a house into a home, but you've got practice under your belt and style like I've never seen.

    P.S. Shabby Chic ROCKS.

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  3. I feel behind, but glad to know a bit of the backstory on your fabulous staging/decor in the temporary house! It looks amazing! I admire the way you can mix masculine and feminine. I need that balance now that there is more than one boy in the house… :)
    p.s. email me sometime where you live- by delsa's? so close. maybe we should converge worlds and meet in *real* life? ….or should we remain hopelessly devoted blog fans that can simply admire and admire from afar? ponder.

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  4. So lovely! I adore your sense of style, in every sense of the word!

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  5. Congratulations Aubrey on another move. We have one coming up ourselves in three weeks. I'm excited and nervous all in one - making a house a home takes time, but you seem to have it down. Did I see some of your dad's artwork in the house? I loved your arrangements of photo frames and furniture placement and can't wait to see pictures of the next house. :-)

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